I am somewhat stunned by the excellent reviews I have found for this book. Not that it wasnt a good book, it was. Bitchfest is chalk full of interesting, eye opening and the occasionally predictable essays exploring puberty, gender identity, sex, beauty and pop culture to name a few. However nobody mentions the collection of infantile essays it possesses along with it such as Audrey Bilgers essay regarding the use of “you guys” being a gender neutral term.(which I can make a whole ranty post on alone) So-the-fuck-what? These arguments often undermine what we are fighting for by arguing about something so unecessary instead of arguing about say.. equal wages. If we are going to point out faults in todays culture, society and economy you might as well make the argument worth while in my opinion. Fight for a real change, not some glossy make-over just to make things look prettier by restructuring the english language.
It seems to me that many feminists are just so ready to be spoon fed feminist quotes and ideas they swallow anything anyone of even the slightest popularity is willing to shove down their throats.. ready and willing to regurgitate it later onto the poor man who happens to stumble into this topic of conversation. Which really isnt that hard is it? A simple kindness of opening a car door for a woman now days may accidentally provoke a tirade of vehemant feminist views and thoughts on how your act of kindness only reinforces our oppression. Actions which are applauded in an article or two.
Now your thinking wait, I thought you said you were a feminist. Aha, got you confused didnt I? Well I am, I strongly believe in the movement and the need to become EQUAL, that is a key word here, but I think many of the more radical feminists are not so much struggling for equality but finding small slights in every day things which in effect oppresses the opposite sex in return.
I find it humorous that the magazine, which is often called “the touchstone of hip, young feminist thought”, looks at the way pop culture informs feminism. When in fact the magazine and the book are all pop culture in and of itself. Its stated that Bitch Magazine encourages their readers to think critically about the messages behind their favorite books, movies, music choices.. I applaud this and believe a critical examination of many of the things within pop culture and advertisments is necessary. However, do not forget that this book may need to be read with a critical eye as well.
Overall though, I do recommend reading this book Atleast in an effort to formulate your own opinions on many of the topics discussed. There are in fact several articles worthy of praise such as “Hot and Bothered:Unmasking Male Lust;by Lisa Jervis which not only questions female sexuality stereoptypes but the male stereotype as well along with many of the pop culture phenonemons which contribute to the views society holds today.







